No more Ms. or Mr. Nice Guy. The time has come for you to claim your power and own up to your individuality! Does it mean you get what you want by force and at the expense of others? Absolutely not. But, if you are guilty of turning over your power completely in an effort to keep the peace, you need to find a middle ground. Until your needs as well as the needs of others are satisfied, you will attract situations with outcomes that are met by anger and resentment. How long can you bully others before they either go away or rebel against you? How long can you play the victim before you eventually crack?
To bring the scales to a balance:
- Make a list of what you need to address.
- Start with the easiest from your list.
- Schedule a date and time to address it, then act on it.
- If you are unable to bring yourself to do it, work on building your self-esteem.
This post relates to the Life Strategy: Balance