If you are ready to start taking control of your life, I highly recommend you consider doing a thorough self-assessment, set a goal or two and create an action plan for how to achieve them. Take advantage of the many resources available at your fingertips courtesy of the Internet. Among them is The Goals Plan from my book, The Magic of Succeeding: Baby-Stepping Your Thoughts, Goals, and Life. It includes a four-phase plan for setting and achieving long and short-term goals in every area of your life. A nice perk is that you also have the author within reach to guide you every step of the way.
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